Developing Couples by Grounding Identity First
Coach Mel
Coach Clark
We are a husband and wife team of relationship coaches helping men and
women build healthy, lasting, and satisfying relationships
by doing the inner work relationships can’t do for them.
Why Couples Development Exists
For years, the conversation around dating, relationships, and marriage has been stuck.
Men and women arguing about who’s right.
Social media amplifying pain without resolution.
Relationships carrying weight they were never meant to carry.
Couples Development exists to move the conversation forward.
We believe healthy relationships aren’t built by fixing each other.
They’re built by grounded individuals who take responsibility for their inner work.
Our Approach
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We focus on clarifying identity before building intimacy
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We believe relationship capacity matters more than relationship status
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We value marriage and family, without romanticizing them
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We believe men’s and women’s inner work both matter
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We believe God is the anchor for identity
How the Work Is Structured
​Women’s Inner Work
Led by Holistic Wellness and Relationship Coach Mel. Helping women ground their identity so they can choose love from wholeness, not fear or self-abandonment.
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Men’s Inner Work
Centered at My Brother In Christ, led by Coach Clark. Creating space for men to build identity, leadership, and relational strength.
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Different lanes. Same goal:
healthy men and women building strong marriages and families.
Who This Is For
This Space Is for You If…
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You still believe in love and marriage
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You’re single or partnered but feel like something is off in your love life
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You’re tired of blaming others or trying to fix your partner
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You’re ready to take responsibility for your growth
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You want depth, not dating and relationship hacks that may temporarily work, but ultimately don't lead you to soul-satisfying results
What’s Next
Our full site is being rebuilt to reflect this next chapter of Couples Development.
In the meantime, we’re continuing the conversation on Instagram, YouTube and TikTok, where the real work is already happening.
